365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Dreams/Wishes/Hope/Future

5.16.19

Day 36

Are your expectations of yourself too high?

  • Yes
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365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Past

4.01.19
 
Day 25
 
Have your past experiences shaped the fears and anxieties you have today?
 
  • Relationships wise, yes possibly but not in a negative sense – more in a cautious and be more observant and less tolerate sense.  Otherwise in real world events, yes, I have some fears/anxieties that I have had sense growing up and others that stumbled upon me as I got to be older due to the past- but I have gotten better or I am still working on making them less of  an issue going forward in life so that it doesn’t hinder me from great opportunities or honest friendships & relationships. 
We all can agree that we don’t want our past to control the present or future, but sometimes due to the past we have reservations and feelings towards certain aspects of life, do any of you have past experiences that have formed your fears and anxieties now? 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Past

3.31.19

Day 24

What from your past do you wish you could do over?

  • I wish I could do college over again, and had chosen a college based on where I wanted to go and not a college based on my mom controlling/making my decisions for me. I wish I could do my previous relationship over again and sometimes I wish I could do over my whole life again. 

Is there anything you wish you could do over again?

365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Past

3.17.19

Day 10

What mistakes have you learned from in the past?

  • How to make better financial decisions with credit card use
  • how important your credit score is when it comes to everyday life 
  • Not to allow family members to take advantage of you financially
  • Being happy with myself truly before involving myself in a long term relationship with someone else
  • Stand up for myself
  • Take risk instead of passing up opportunity due to fear 
  • Make more of an effort to keep in touch with loved ones and friends
  • Don’t do too much all at once — know your limits
  • Don’t change who you are in order for people to like you
  • Don’t be afraid to be honest about your feelings
  • Date someone who brings value to your life, instead of basing things off looks alone
  • There is nothing wrong with being single, no need to rush into a relationship
  • put yourself FIRST
  • Live below my means
  • listen to what someone has to say before deciding to react and then regretting it later
  • Walk away from relationships that hinder, scare, control or makes you feel less than your best
  • choose friends wisely and be cautious of whom you allow in your circle
  • Pray more often because you need help from a higher power more than you know
What are some lessons you have learned from mistakes you have made?

365 Days of Self Discovery: Feelings & Emotions

2.21.19

Day 53

What do you love about life?

  • I love the opportunities life has to offer, the learning experiences, the choices we have to live our lives to the fullest, the adventure it brings, and being able to experience life with different people in various ways. 
What do you love about life? or don’t you love life? 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Feelings & Emotions

2.14.19

Day 46

Is there anything in your life that makes you ashamed?

  • In the past, yes but not now in my present.

365 Days of Self Discovery: Day 108

12.19.18

Has anything changed your outlook on life?

  • Hard question to answer, because I go back and forth on my whole outlook on life, sometimes I find it a mystery, other days, I find it unfair and cruel & then I have days where life just seems wonderful and I can’t wait for the next adventure. I suppose having heard many people’s experiences within in their lives have shaped some of my views/outlooks — good and bad. Also, I believe these same things have helped me to go through life with an open mind & made me more cautious of the world  (whereas when we are young, we just live for the moment) now, I feel as though I have to live for the future (not knowing what will come of it but hoping for the best outcome). Sometimes I don’t always know what to make of life, and events change or might sway my decision or thoughts — I suppose the one important aspect of life that hasn’t changed is I believe life to be full of opportunities – and in order to seize those opportunities, we have to be willing to sometimes make certain sacrifices or remove ourselves from our comfort zone (s) & not every opportunity is a good one, but that’s something you have to learn to figure out (which opportunity will rewards and which will reap bad consequences). 

Have any of you changed your outlook on life? If so, why?