365 Days of Self Discovery: Your relationships

Day 21

Think about your past romantic relationships. What lessons did you learn from them? What did each person bring to your life?

  • I haven’t had many past relationships and I would say about 1-2 probably didn’t bring much to my life, if anything — and something not worth mentioning but I would say the past 2 people I dated I learned something different from each of them and yet some similar things as well because I made the same mistake in both relationships. I think of the more important things I learned in this most recent past relationship was that in order to have a stable, healthy relationship with some, both parties need to have a stable & healthy mindset, both have to be in a good place in their lives and bring forth their own happiness before relying on another to do the same & I also learned to not give so much of myself to someone all at once and so fast because it doesn’t allow things to grow; stop rushing the process of the relationship & allow things to happen naturally in their own flow. Each of my exes were different and they brought me something different at different periods of my life — I don’t think I know what those things were yet, or maybe I have an idea but it hasn’t hit me like a stone wall because I haven’t given much thought to the question in the recent years. I know for the most part, they each brought me closer to realizing my mistakes in how I handle and manage negativity in my life, they each managed to teach me to look at my own flaws and figure out to better manage them so they don’t hinder a relationship from growing or prospering. How I wish I would have been more aware back when. 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Relationships


Day 10

How do you show people that you love them?

  • I will tell that person
  • I will show affection
  • do something meaningful to them
How do you show people that you love them?

365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Relationships


Day 3

Who do you love and why?

  • Well currently I am single, so it would have to be friends and family due to the fact they mean a lot to me and part of my day to day. 
  • I’ll also go as far as to say I still love and will always have love for my most recent ex Rachel because she was the first person I dated whom I had a spark with naturally and made me feel good in more ways than one & those are memories I won’t forget.
  • I hope to add myself to this list one day, but right now, I don’t always feel as though I can say I love myself and that is a journey I am taking now with this self discovery. 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Relationships


Day One 

What does love mean to you?

  • Love means unconditional respect, support, loyalty, and a meaningful relationship. 
What does love mean to you? I am eager to read all the answers. 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Dreams/Wishes/Hopes/Future


Day 38

What would give your life more meaning?

  • Possibly sharing it with someone special. 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Dreams/Wishes/Hopes/Future


Day 32

What gifts do you want to share with the world?

  • Love, compassion, strength and hope. I believe the world needs more of those everyday. 

365 Days of Self Discovery: your Wishes/dreams/hopes/future


Day 2

What is one thing you have always wished for?

  • Hmm, possibly love ( a healthy relationship) and some form of financial success.