365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Relationships

6.22.19

Day 33

How comfortable are you meeting new people?

  • Honestly, I enjoy meeting new people but due to my social anxiety it is difficult for me to go out of my way to meet new people on my own (but it has gotten a tad bit better over the years). I noticed when someone else introduces me to somebody new, I handle it fine pending the vibes I get from the person – I go off people’s body language, their character, how they speak, carry themselves and how they perceive me as well because those all play a role in how comfortable I am around this person. 
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365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Dreams/Wishes/Hopes/Future

5.05.19

Day 25

What new thing do you want to try in the next year?

  • I’d like to create my own product line of different things (fitness/health)
  • start doing motivational speeches for the public 
  • setting up my own boot camps, classes, personal training in different locations in the nicer months to keep people in shape and active (both kids and adults alike)

365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Dreams/Wishes/Hopes/Future

5.03.19

Day 23

Do you embrace the “new”?

  • Not always, sometimes. 
Do you embrace the new?

365 Days of self Discovery: Your Wishes/Dreams/Hopes/Future

4.15.19

Day 5

What new hobbies would you like to try?

  • Kayaking
  • Attend concerts
  • attend professional sporting events
  • fishing – I have done this before, but something I enjoyed and would like to do more often
  • Traveling to various places around the world
  • rock climbing
  • All day/long trail hiking
  • camping
  • yoga
  • stand up comedy
  • meditation – I have done before but would like to make this more of a routine 
  • canoeing
  • geocatching
  • surfing
  • mountain biking
  • scuba diving
  • snorkeling
  • canyoning
  • snowboarding
  • rafting
  • longboarding
  • skydiving
  • hunting
  • golf
  • podcasting

Many of these things I would like to be introduced to, just to give it a go and see what I make of it, doesn’t mean I would like it but I like growing my hobbies and being introduced to other peoples hobbies because then you find out you may be good at something and you meet new people through new hobbies. I am usually pretty open minded when it comes to trying something new. 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Feelings & Emotions

1.15.19

Day 16

If you ran away, where would you go?

  • Funny thing is, I have given this question much thought in the past. I have decided I would choose someplace that nobody knows me, it would be almost like starting over & I would want someplace that gives me a sense of adventure and with diversity. Hopefully if I ran away, it would eventually lead me someplace I could call home or at least feel at ease about. 
Has this ever crossed your mind, where would you want to go if you ran away?

365 Days of Self Discovery: Day 70

11.11.18

When was the last time you did something spontaneous and how did it make you feel?

  • It has been a couple of years back & at the time it made be both nervous and excited. It involved traveling, staying in a hotel and venturing a big city on my own for a whole weekend. My reason was because I wanted to test myself and anxiety and do something on my own to help pull me out of my comfort level. Since then, I haven’t done anything that I would render spontaneous but there have been times I have wanted to, and there will be a time I do something like this again, I am sure of it.

How many of you have ever done something spontaneous, when was the last time, is this something you make a habit for yourself? Express your feelings in the comments, and don’t forget to follow, share and like! 

Sometimes I feel like I am drowning —

Hey everyone 🙂

With as busy as I have been, I know I haven’t been consistent with my post like I was in the past and that is because I am building a new website for my personal training business I want to do & I have been traveling and out of town a whole lot more since it is the summer. 

Not to mention, I want to start up a new podcast for my business but it will be fun and lot more laid back — but coming up with a title has been grueling, so hopefully within the month that will be a  finished product. I have had a lot on my plate with this new business venture I am taking and being sponsored by two companies and having an online presence on IG, FB and Twitter, etc has been taking a toll sometimes — it can be quite overwhelming and I am always on the go, go, go. There is hardly enough time for me to just do me *hints why I am usually gone for a long period of time from this blog*. I ma not trying to avoid any of you or make excuses for my absence but at times I need that breath of fresh air & not always will I post it. 

With all of this being said, I have yet to sit down and come up with a new schedule for this blog and my LGBTQ blog — so be patient with me, but do know I will  and when I do, I will let all of you know, because I know many of you like routine and enjoyed my older days when I was posting more often and with new, fun and exciting things that led you to my blog in the first place. Nothing comes easy when you have a lot on your plate on and offline — so this might be something that ends up being trial and error until I get it right. Once upon a time, I was keeping track of all my milestones when it came to followers on this blog, but since slowing down and realizing I am not dedicating the same amount of time I once was to this blog I found there was no point in doing all of that when my stats reflect my failure to commit to consistency; maybe in the future I will have new milestones I can reflect on and share but for now don’t expect anything HUGE until I have been a more regular blogger again. I am not giving up blogging or letting go of this blog or any of the other blogs I do, they are all successful blogs that I will make into a side profession, but the amount of time I am dedicating to them will be hindered quite a bit for sometime until I can get more things off my plate and have a balance — especially since I am making a website, that will need my full attention as well. I was always told to not break off more than I can chew (I suppose that is too late, considering circumstances) but I can still find ways to manage my blogs without them becoming a chore ( I don’t like chores) LOL.

In the meantime, once my website is up and running — it won’t be perfect of course because I still have to take proper steps in having it look more professional and what not, but for now I just want it up and running with new post/and possibly content and maybe features.. we shall see (one step at a time) and once my podcast is created and running — I will reveal that information as well, along with any other projects I am working on that would be relevant for all of my readers. 

I do want to say THANK YOU, because most of you continue to keep up with my blog post, and comment and still find time to make time for my writings without complaints. I may not be as good as I once was with keeping up with your blogs, but I do appreciate the time you have taken to subscribe to my blog, follow my blog, read and share it. I know being a blogger was not meant to be easy for everyone depending on your goals, and I chose to take the long road with the most reward BUT my blog wouldn’t be as valuable or or hold a purpose without ALL OF YOU BEING APART OF IT 🙂 Thank you for all your continued support. #CHEERS 

Shay-lon

P.S when I compete in my first powerlifting meet, I will also be sharing this with all of you !