365 Days of Self Discovery: Day 100

12.11.18

Do you take the time to reflect on what is happening in your life?

  • Yes, I do quite often actually. Especially when I am spending time alone in the house/ my bedroom. Whenever I start to reflect, typically I either become emotional, frustrated, grateful, or feel motivational; normally writing out goals, task that need done (short & long term goals). It comes down to me as what happens in my life that I can control and I am learning that if I don’t like something or something makes me uncomfortable, I have to either speak up, or walk away from it, because enduring it sometimes makes a monster out of us. Not saying, I am good at speaking up or walking away, but I have to force myself when it comes time to handle certain situations that may arise. 
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365 Days of Self Discovery: Day 99

12.10.18

Are there parts of your life that you find distracting?

  • For awhile, having had gone through a break up with my ex, and losing out on a friendship was distracting me from progressing in terms of my goals and focusing on priorities. Now, between potentially losing out on another friendship and having dealt with work drama over and over again at this job (not the gym) this doesn’t necessarily distract me unless I am in the environment, but it does annoy me quite a bit. Outside of those things, I don’t really have many parts of my life that serve as distractions currently.

Do you find any part(s) of your life distracting, now or in the past?

365 Days of Self Discovery: Day 98

12.09.18

Do you ever break the rules?

  • I am not the type of person who will go out of my way to break rules, and I always usually try my best to follow them due to being overly cautious. Although, yes, I have broken rules, and suffered consequences for doing so & sometimes I have been able to get away with action without having someone find out — but it left guilt on my heart & that can be worse off than the consequences. I prefer to not have to break the rules,however I do believe “some rules are meant to be broken” — especially if the rule(s) don’t align with your values/beliefs, or change your character negatively. Sometimes we have to go against our belief system and sway from our values but many times those set the standards for what we believe in and how we go about doing things in our lives. For example, our moral belief might be to not kill someone but when defending ourselves, it could mean life or death & sometimes killing the other person is the only option if we want to survive. 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Day 95

12.06.18

Do you have spiritual beliefs that help guide you?

  • I do have spiritual beliefs, but I lack using them to guide me unless I run into trouble or something bad happens. 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Day 93

12.04.18

What are your pet peeves?

  • I have a few pet peeves that I shall list:
  1. when people chew gum loudly/obnoxiously
  2. when people speak with food in their mouth
  3. when people don’t use their turn signals
  4. when people are telling you something & you are trying to make sense of the story but they continue to change it
  5. when someone interrupts my karaoke moment to a song I like it
  6. when someone leaves either urine or water on the toilet seat without cleaning it up & you end up sitting on it — so gross. 
  7. Having to use public restrooms ( I don’t using them because you don’t get any privacy)
  8. when people talk to myself or others in a condescending manner
  9. when people ride my bumper very closely 
  10. when someone can’t repair/do something and refuse to let you try because they couldn’t do it. 
  11. When people text like this: GUrLz .. 
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