365 Days of Self Discovery: Your relationships


Day 69

Who are you not afraid to be yourself with?

  • Typically, I prefer to be myself around anyone and everyone; I find that to be more healthy and more real. At times it takes me having to get to know someone and their boundaries, and what they are comfortable with before exposing all myself to someone (metaphorically speaking) — and I have learned to adapt to my environment and circumstances; which doesn’t mean I am hiding who I am but I am choosing to withhold certain aspects of myself until I feel comfortable otherwise. Sometimes we tend to get too pushy and expect everyone to accept our behaviors and lifestyles equally and get offended by anyone who doesn’t agree — while I always hope people enjoy my company, I don’t expect everyone to like me, so I will always be myself but I won’t shove myself down someones throat to make a point either. As you grow, you learn to choose your battles and who to give two craps about and who not to. 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Dreams/Wishes/Hopes/Future


Day 41

What are your personal goals?

  • Work on my social anxiety
  • work on building my self worth/confidence
  • travel on my own
  • lose weight (10-15 lbs)
  • build solid relationships with both my siblings that continue to be positive and allow us to stay close
  • learn to forgive myself and others
  • learn to stand up for myself when need be and voice my opinions openly without fear of what others may think or say
I’d say I have more than what is listed, but I think primarily these listed are some of the important ones for now. 
What are your personal goals? 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Past

Day 25
Have your past experiences shaped the fears and anxieties you have today?
  • Relationships wise, yes possibly but not in a negative sense – more in a cautious and be more observant and less tolerate sense.  Otherwise in real world events, yes, I have some fears/anxieties that I have had sense growing up and others that stumbled upon me as I got to be older due to the past- but I have gotten better or I am still working on making them less of  an issue going forward in life so that it doesn’t hinder me from great opportunities or honest friendships & relationships. 
We all can agree that we don’t want our past to control the present or future, but sometimes due to the past we have reservations and feelings towards certain aspects of life, do any of you have past experiences that have formed your fears and anxieties now? 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Past


Day 19

What was your favorite thing to do as a child?

  • being outdoors,
  • riding my bike
  • riding my skateboard,
  • video games
  • reading
  • throwing football with my younger brother 
  • playing basketball 

365 Days of Self Discovery: Your Past


Day 18

Has your family life changed since being a child?

  • I have two brothers instead of one now & during the holidays not as many people attend in our family due to some of them having their own families to celebrate the holidays with; besides that, nothing. 

Has anything in your family life changed since you were child